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I Bleed, But I am Not Culprit

i am not culprit

I am a girl, I bear pain, I bleed…but I am not a culprit… I am victim...

India is being known for its culture, tradition, rituals and customs. These are called the treasure of the world and these only treasures sometimes hurt a lot. I am a girl and I born in a middle class family like too many other girls. We are brought up with great care and attention, given higher education but we are supposed to adapt the backward thinking. Why? Just because we are girls and we are supposed to follow all these useless rituals which are made only for girl.

I am not allowed to enter into kitchen to cook or to have food. If I need a glass of water, I will have to rely on some other family members. I will have to beg for a glass of water. If no one is available at home, I will have to wait until someone come. But I am not allowed to enter into kitchen. Even i cannot touch the household things. I will have to wash my head daily even i am not willing to do so. If some stain left on my bed sheet, i have to wash it by my own. If some stain left on my cloth, i become a topic of others fun. Not a single boy tries to cover me, but crack jokes on the same. Not only this, i cannot enter into religious places like temple etc. i will have to wait outside. I am treated as harmful insect. But why should I hide myself from others? Why should I am not allowed to go outside and sit at home only?

Yes, I am talking about the period’s time during which a girl passes through severe pain with mensuration. In India, mensuration is taken as different way and the victim girl is treated as Infectious to be touched. But this is completely wrong. A mensuration is not a disease; it is process through which ovary is cleaned and that to give birth to a new life in future.  Mensuration cannot be treated as bad as it is compulsory and god gifted.

I too read too many religious books in which menstruated girls are not allowed to work anything because of some religious story behind the same. But who knows the actual history? Who can take the guarantee of the story behind the same? Logic behind of not taking work from the girl at the periods is to provide them the complete rest as her body has to suffer with the several pain and weakness.

In fact, I girl should be taken as pride as she can do the things a man can’t do. If a girl wants, she can take pills to stop the mensuration but she doesn’t do because she knows the real value of being a girl.  If she is suffering through mensuration, she will be called Filthy but if she is not, she will be called Barren. There is no way of escape to a girl. I, being a girl, would like to announce that don’t treat a girl in a different way. She is not supposed to discuss such private thing openly because our society does not allow doing so. But it does not mean, she is culprit or faulty, she is god creature with the unique qualities and mensuration is one of those qualities, not disgust.

Even girls are also suggested to become strong, fight against these old rituals if you are not agree with such strange behavior, raise voice and live with self-respect. Treat yourself at the time of periods as you treat yourself like others days.

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Formal Dress Code for Interview

Formal Dress Code for Interview

yone is now being aware of what the formal dress code is and what impact it has on interviewer. Too many interview studies found in which candidates were not selected just because of not wearing formal dress ups. In fact, many of the organization do not entertain the candidate without wearing formal dresses and ask them to go out or leave the interview room. It sounds strange! But it is true. Now a day, interview offer letter contains one of the conditions to wear formal dress to attend the interview.

Whether the interview is for the private company or public company, whether it is for job or for professional study, it is mandatory to provide decent look through formal dress up.

Let’s study the dress code for men and women:

Women:

Women or females are not back in any of the stream and takes part in every stream by upholding shoulders. Some of the most important formal dress factors are:

Traditional

  • Cotton Sareez: Cotton cloths have a professional aroma. One should not wear dark coloured saree. Decent light coloured saree, proper tied, with the simple stitched blouse is preferable to wear for interview. Usually saree is used for the higher position or for the traditional organization. Instead of open palla saree, proper plates should be adhered which can be managed with great comfort.
  • Salwar Kameez: Decent cotton suit salwar with the plain dupatta brings ethnic look. Apart from carrying dupatta with Salwar suit, ethnic but simple collar necked below knee length Kurti with the matching legging can be dressed because sometime to carry dupatta may be disturbing at the time of interview and it may distract the interviewer as well

Western

  • Formal Trouser with Shirt: Corporate world has given birth to this formal attire. Light color collared neck shirt with the dark color trouser give professional look and impress the interviewer at first instance.
  • Blazer: Usually, blazer is worn in winters with shirt and trouser. Blazer must be of good quality fabric. It must not be too shiny and appealing. Dark coloured blazer with light coloured cotton shirt is a perfect match for interview.

Men:

Men have no other option instead of carrying a shirt and trouser but still, they should also follow some rules of dressing up.

  • Light coloured shirt with dark coloured trouser: Usually a combination of white shirt and black trouser is best, but still light blue shirt and dark blue trouser also perfect for interview. Shirt must be of cotton fabric and should be plain.
  • Tie: avoid wearing red coloured tie. You are not here to attend wedding, so wear dark colored tie matching with the formal cloths.
  • Blazer in winter: Combination of Shirt, Trouser, Tie and blazer gives a perfect look of professional man.

Note:

  1. Wear comfortable footwear as well. Boys must wear black or dark brown formal shoes and females must wear stilettoes, or bellies. Footwear must not be noisy.
  2. Wear comfortable dress only, too much fitting may create problems.

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Why to Wear Formal Dress for Interview

Why to Wear Formal Dress for Interview

Formal Dress is requisite to come for an interview now-a-days. Though there is no certain rule for cracking any interview, yet one must be formal in appearance or look. Too much appealing dressing sense may distract the interviewers and may bring negative impact as well. Interview study reveals that physical appearance or human personality brings positivity in the environment. Different organizations do have different cultures and one need to adapt the environment accordingly. This is also true that job selection is based on the knowledge and qualification but presentation also matters a lot.

Why to Wear Formal Dress for interview:-

  1. First impression is always a last impression. Once you enter the interview room in front of interview board members, your entrance makes a difference in their mind.
  2. Smart appearance and decent look attracts the belonging or nearby people instantly. Professional personality will speak more than the words to be spoken.
  3. A company always seeks for reputation in public or business world. Presenting the employees in formals builds a comprehensive repo and helps to achieve the business target.
  4. Formal wearing enhances the self-confidence. You don’t feel like different from the others. Inherited self-confidence enables you to answer the interview questions without any hesitation. In fact, you don’t feel like alone among the interviewees. You try to mix-up with them and this enhances the feeling of team spirit.
  5. Formal attire is a part for social atmosphere. Almost every MNC follow the rule of wearing formal dresses only. It’s a symbol of corporate and professional life.
  6. Comfortable formal wearing motivates you to proceed further during each interview round. Formal dress is not a magic but it is internal feeling which automatically comes through dressing up formals.
  7. And the most important benefit of wearing formal attire is that it provides 40% success at the time of interview. Decent personality win the hearts and reveals maximum positivity.

It is not the old times when no preference was given to dressing sense. Now every professional institute adds on Personality Development classes along with the course curriculum. A popular Hindi statement perfectly fits here “Jo Dikhta Hai, Wahi Bikta Hai”

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Top 10 Indian Online Footwear Shopping Sites

Top 10 Indian Online Footwear Shopping Sites India

Craze of online shopping getting an upward direction day by day. Not even a single thing is left to be sold through online panel. Everything is now available on mobile phone or our desktop.  We will here bring down some popular online shopping sites dealing with foot wears:

Fashos.com

Fashos has its corporate office in Delhi and dealing with the most popular brands of foot wears like Bata, Fila, Funk, liberty, red chief, reebok, woodland etc. The prices are according to the variety of the shoes and slippers. The website is a complete package of every kind of foot wears for women and men.

Yebhi.com

Apart from the clothing & other accessories, the website has a unique collection of foot wears as well. The shoes, sandals or other foot wears are on reasonable prices which are affordable by middle class family too. Instead of high branded products, it prefers to appreciate and provide chance to small sized enterprises to show their skills in footwear industries.

Flipkart.com

The company is well known for its quick and real time services. Many of the footwear shops deal through this company. Flip kart is not actively involved in selling and buying of the footwear products. Merchants have their accounts made in Flipkart through which they deal with the Indian customers online.

Homeshop18.com

This website is famous for providing daily routine items ranging from kitchen, clothing, jewellary, etc. homeshop18 having Indian and foreign brands of foot wears and sell the products on COD basis that to be on free shipping basis. It has launched its mobile app as well due to its popularity.

Metroshoes.net

Mumbai based company Metroshoes has different varieties ranging from casuals, bridal, sports, formals of different brands such as puma, Crocs, Clark’s, Kittens, Redtape, Woly and many more. Wide varieties can be seen for high profile peoples as well.

Bata.in

It is the perfect store for shoe lover. Bata offers numerous varieties to women, men and kids with the high comfort services. This web store has awesome collection of summer, winter, spring, rainy season and updates the products according to the seasonal requirements.

Clarks.in

Clarks is top most reputed brand in footwear and being sold in metro cities shopping malls. Though it is having its own exclusive shops at different location as well, but Digitalization also motivated the company to get into online business.

Libertyshoesonline.com

Bata and liberty has almost equal level of competition from several years. Its main motive is comfort and serves the clients accordingly. It too has multiple stores located at several locations. Maximum discount offers catch the mind of customers.

Yepme.com

Yepme has its own brand in the footwear industries. The prices of foot wears are comparatively low and in high demand among middle class users. Having a perfect collection of casuals, this web store became the attraction point for everyone. Yepme is also dealing with other popular brands as well.

Jupitershoes.com

Jupiter is a Mumbai based company having branded collection of sandals, ballerinas, boots, wedges, loafers, shoes, etc. The main specialty which makes it differ from the other footwear site is that Jupiter deal with the big size feet only because big size shoes are difficult to find in the normal market.

Shopping sites List doesn’t end here. Too many online shopping sites are available worldwide dealing with the trendy footwear. Companies come and go. Some get famous & become brands but some has to close their outlets. Enjoy the shopping and step ahead only.

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A Salute to Traffic Police

A Police Man

Yes, a Salute for a traffic police. Most probably, we must have thought of the work of a traffic police who performs his duty standing all the time just to help us to commute well. He is to suffer with so much dust, pollution, noise etc. but still he stands in the middle of the crossroads.

It is my routine to get ready for the office and to come Gurgaon along with my husband in car.  While traveling, too many crossroads comes on our way.  We usually see the responsible traffic police who perform their task of managing the heavy to heavy traffic so smoothly and calmly. These traffic police are even not worried about their life. They just care for the general people who travel through their own vehicles.

We usually pay attention to our family with whom we live, our friends who are a part of our social life, our colleague with whom we work, our employer who provide us the opportunity to earn hard money for our survival etc. Apart from these, we do pay attention to doctors, lawyers, drivers etc. all of them work for us in exchange of money only. But we usually forget to pay attention to the traffic police who perform the duties with the great honesty without charging any penny from us and without bothering about their life and health. They do charge if we break the traffic rules a penalty. But they do have right to punish us for our negligence.

These traffic police are alike the soldiers who stands at the country border just to save us from the enemy country’s attack. Likewise, traffic police save us from the road accidents and uncertain mis-happening.  So this article is just to appreciate their efforts towards the social welfare. This article will also motivate them to perform their duties very well. Again A salute to Traffic Police for their hard work and dedication.

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