Tips for Happy Married Life

happy marriage life tips

Tips for Happy Married life are not pre-determined. Life can experienced and improved accordingly. yet the only thing for any relation is devotion and dedication. Capture the beautiful moments with love as much as you can.

1.  Start Day with a Kiss

Morning always bring a new thinking, new expectations and new energy. So a couple should also try to start their day with the newness. A good morning kiss bring cheerful smile and helps to start a day with positiveness. In fact, romance starts with a kiss and married life is nothing without expressing love. Kissing is the only way to express your true love towards your partner.

2. Help Each Other

Though it is always assumed that a woman should handle all the domestic chaos along with the office work whereas a man is supposed to handle the office work. But it should not be like this. Reason being, a woman handle office work so a man should also help her in domestic chaos. Man’s ego should not be present. Same, a woman should support her husband in his career. Helping each other in their respective works will bring the relation strong and long lasting.

3. Respect Feelings

Relation always build of feelings and so one should respect feeling of another person.  Usually females are much emotional compare to males. So male should not make fun of females’ emotions. Females should also take care of practical aspects of her partners.

4. Friendship

No relation can be better than friendship as this relation has no obligation. Friendship doesn’t bound with any other relation, caste, religion, place etc.  this relation is open minded and helps to understand each other. A friend can show his or her negative aspects to other friend without any hesitation.  In fact, more comfort is present in this relation. So it’s better to have friendship first.

5. Trust

Trust is the base of any relation. To say ‘I love you’ is common but to say ‘I trust you’ is quite difficult. Trust can not be forced , it can be gained only through strong bonding. This is the trust only through which parents send their daughters to a stranger family after marriage.  Boy should understand this trust and should take care of a girl with deep heart. Girl should also try not to break the trust to make his family happy

6. Spend Quality Time

Work life and family life together makes the real life quite busy due to which no couple has sufficient time to spend with fun. Lack of time stops them to build healthy relation and understanding.  Too distance can be harmful for any relation.  So one should always spare weekends for picnic and to have fun. Couple can also plan for outing twice in a year.

7. Sharing

The strongest part is sharing. Sharing refers to discussing problems, telling each incidents, exploring each other. Sharing of materialistic things should also be present. After marriage, there is no place for ‘I’ a d ‘you’, it should be we or us. This represents the sharing things. The couple who share good and bad part of life with honesty, can make their relation stronger.

8. Remember Occasions

Beautiful moments can be collected and recalled any time. One should remember special occasion like birthdays, anniversary or any achievement day. Basically, it is said that boy usually don’t remember birthdays or any other dates which can lead to small misunderstandings. Try to memorize these days anyhow like through phone or through writing on diaries.

9. Have Sex

Sex gives pleasant and enhance the opportunity to express feelings. No married life is complete without sex.  One should not feel shy of discussing the sex related things with your partner. Sex is also a best way of reducing day stress and to feel relax. Daily sex gives happiness from inside and happy couple are always focused towards life long married life.

10. Mutual Understanding

It is said that one should understand each other just looking at the eye of the partner, no need to utter a single word. Actually it is not a joke or romantic statements, once relation becomes strong beyond imagination, partner eventually understand each others feeling and pain without sharing through words. So build mutual understanding.

Happy married life cannot be achieved through reading articles only, one should also follow the relevant step towards strengthening the relation.

Why Black Suit was Banned for Dev Anand

Dev Anand Black Suit

Why Black Suit was banned for Dev Anand? When the movie named “Kala Pani” got hit, Dev Anand was requested or imposed by the court not to wear black dress because girls usually went mad while seeing his adorable look in black dress and girls would jump from the buildings just to see him in black. Girls were not even caring about their lives. Though it was not the fault/ intention of Dev Anand to put the girls’ lives in danger but still he had to agree with the court imposition. His charisma was so powerful and influential.

Dev Anand’s life story

Dev Anand at Black DressDev Anand was a famous actor with the charming personality. Apart from being an actor, he was also a Director, Writer and Producer too.  It was not possible to get the name fame so easily. He worked hard in the film industry. He struggled a lot to achieve this success.

Dev Anand was born in 26 September, 1923 in Gurdaspur, Punjab. He was graduated with Arts. He came to Mumbai I early 1940s to make his career having Rs. 30/- with him. He firstly joined military censor’s office for salary of Rs.165/- PM and later on, as a clerk in accountancy firm with Rs. 85/-. He got inspired with Mr. Ashok Kumar to perform in Hindi Cinema. He played theater role with his brother and got his first film “Hum Ek Hain” in 1945. After this movie, he got recognition in the fil world and offered with many movies.

His romance life began when he offered movies with Suraiya, a popular actress. While shooting for the movie ‘Vidya’, he rescued Suraiya from a capsized boat while filming the song ‘Kinare kinare chale jayenge’. Then only both of them fell in love with each other but they did not get married due to oppose by Suraiya’s maternal grandmother. Dev Anand even proposed Suriaya on the set of JEET movie with a diamond ring.

This break had brought a great change in his life. Suraiya got famous and kept working on hit movies to keep her life busy but Dev Anand has to struggle hard for solo roles to earn his own stardom. He finally got a chance of leading role in ZIDDI and after this movie; he became close friend with Kishore Kumar.

Separation from Suraiya did not stop his life. He got another chance to find his true love while filming for BAAZI  with “Kalpana Karthik”. Both of them performed too many film together and got married after the movie TAXI DRIVER.

Awards won by Dev Anand:

There is no counting of the awards won by Dev Anand because of his hard work, charismatic personality, charming nature, wonderful acting etc. The few of the famous awards are as below:

  • Film fare Award for Best Actor (1959-kala pain & 1967 – Guide)
  • Certificate of merit for third best feature film Hindi (1966 guide)
  • Film fare lifetime achievement award (1992)
  • Bollywood movie award – Special award (2001)
  • Padma Bhushan (2001)
  • Dadasaheb Phalke Award (2002)
  • IIFA Life time Achievement Award (2003)
  • Star Guild Award for best contribution to Indian cinema (2006)
  • Stardust Award for lifetime achievement (2009)

Movies Acted or performed by Dev Anand:

No exact numbers can be found for his movies. Some movies got failed in Indian Cinema but many of the movies left a sign of his presence in Indian film World. Though he is not alive any more, yet he is well known for his special contribution in Indian Cinema. His last movie was Charge sheet in 2011 after which he got died in London due to some medical issues. We all know that he is no more in the world, but no one can forget him. Some of the famous movies are as follows:-

  • Hum ke Hain (1946)
  • ZIDDI (1948)
  • Vidya (1948)
  • BAAZI (1951)
  • Jaal (1952)
  • Taxi driver (1954)
  • Munimji (1955)
  • House No. 44 (1955)
  • Funtoosh (1956)
  • I.D. (1956),
  • Paying Guest (1957)
  • Nau Do Gyarah (1957
  • Kala Pani (1958)
  • Solva Saal (1958)
  • Kala Bazaar (1960)
  • Jaali Note (1960)
  • Bombai ka Babu (1960)
  • Hum Dono (1961)
  • Jab Pyar Kisi Se Hota Hai (1961),
  • Asli Naqli (1962)
  • Baat Ek Raat ki (1962)
  • Tere Ghar ke Samne (1963)
  • Guide (1965),
  • Teen Devian (1965)
  • Payer Mohabbat (1966)
  • Jewel Thief (1967),
  • Duniya (1968)
  • Mahal (1969)
  • Johnny Mera Naam 1970
  • Prem Pujari (1970)
  • Hare Rama Hare Krishna (1971)
  • Gambler (1971)
  • Tere Mere Sapne (1971)
  • Heera Panna (1973)
  • Chhupa Rustam (1973)
  • Amir Garib (1974)
  • Warrant  (1975)
  • Jaaneman (1976)
  • Des Pardes (1978)
  • Lootmaar  (1980)
  • Swami Dada (1982)
  • Anand aur Anand (1984)
  • Hum Naujawan (1985)
  • Awwal Number (1990)
  • Sau Crore (1991)
  • Gangster (1994)
  • Censor (2001)
  • Love at Times Square (2003)
  • Prime Minister (2005)
  • Charge Sheet (2011)

Dev Anand was a legendary in the film industry. His memories are still live through his songs like:

  • Pal Bhar k Liye Koi Hame Pyar kar Le
  • Ye Dil Na hota Bechara
  • Ek Ghar bnaunga Tere Ghar K samne
  • Phoolo k Rang se, Dil Ki tarang se
  • Phoolo ka Taron Ka sabka Kehna Hai
  • Har fikr ko Dhuyen me Udata Chala Gya
  • And many more……

Dev Anand Life is an inspiration for us. He had served 6 decades in the film industry and at the age of 88, he finally get retirement from the world after leaving behind beautiful memories in form of movies. This article is just a small dedication in the memory of Dev Anand. We all will miss Dev Anand till the film industry exists.

Important Tips for Happy and Positive Life

how to have happy life

1.  A Walk or Jog

Walking or jogging is the best exercise to refresher the mind and to bring energy in your body. Walking or jogging brings the positive stamina in your body and throws out the negativity from your mind. Listening music or looking at the pleasant things while walking or jogging relax your mind, heart and body as well.  Our body posture improves, blood circulates well. In one line, exercise makes you fir and fine.

2. Yoga

The person who can go out for physical exercise may take the help of yoga. One need not to go for the hard core yoga exercise. Simply meditation brings the positive energy in body through inhaling the fresh air. Yoga keeps your mind healthy, improves memory power, enhance concentration and inbuilt positive thoughts.

3. Healthy and Pleasant Food

Food is the necessity of life without which no one can live and survive. In fact, human live and struggle for food only. So it is quite necessary to have pleasant food. Pleasant food doesn’t mean to have junk food which solid your health. And healthy food doesn’t mean to have food which you dislike. Try to bring taste in your food along with the nutrients. Because it will also be useless to eat healthy food without pleasant mood. So always better to have healthy but tasty food which keeps your mood pleasant and your heart healthy.

4. Sufficient Water

Intake sufficient water in the morning immediately after wake up helps to flush out the unhealthy antioxidants from the body. Apart from that, one should make a policy to have at least 5-6 liter  water everyday to stimulate the flow of each and every body part.

5. Dress Up Accordingly

Seasonal and fashionable dress up builds the confidence in you and improves your personality. Dress not only covers the body, but also protects your from sunrays and seasonal up downs. Comfortable dress up brings positive attitude and brings charming smile on face.

6. Beautiful Home

Home is the most important factor which is helpful to bring in the positive stamina in you. House should be clean, beautifully interior, dust and germ free and should be surrounded by greenery. Home is not necessarily to be big, it can be small but yet it should be full of necessary amenities. A lady spend her maximum time in kitchen so she prefer her kitchen to be fully furnished and dust free.  Huge space not matters a lot, in fact, proper vitrification, fittings, cleaning matters to live beautifully and happily.

7. Sleep

A normal person must have at least 6-8 hours sleep in a day. Have a god sleep doesn’t meant o sleep all the day and to spread laziness in the house. Sleeping means just to remove the tiredness from the body and to have the new freshening to start your day again with the enhanced energy. Sleeping makes your body relaxed, calm, cheerful. Sleeping is good but sleeping posture should also keep in mind because sleeping posture can also effect your body adversely.

8. Hangout

Everyone is busy in his or her personal or professional life. People don’t have enough time to see the beauty of nature. Stressful life brings the health down and dizziness in body. So it is always advisable to have good friends or friendly relatives with whom you can spend quality and fun time.  Social life gives you awareness about the latest technology and keeps you up to date with the present world.

9. Carry Smile

Carrying smile on face is always peaceful and positive. Blushing face attracts people and helps to make good relations in market. In personal life, it strengthen the relationship with family, partner and relatives and in professional life, it helps to generate business and thus to Maximise profiles. Because smiling face improves personality and so bring positive attitude. It also helps to fight with the hard time very easily.

10. Help Without Expectation

Though helping others is not easy but still we should try to help others as much as we can. To serve for poor or needy people will always gives pleasant and freshen our mood. It will seem like we achieve something great out of the world.

There is no fix policies or rules to stay happy and pleasant. We should keep our mind, heart, body and atmosphere calm and clean. Then everything will be amazing. We should live life with fullest, sing a song of love and care. Because God has given us one life so we should try to give our fullest and take fullest.