Why People Smoke – Some Common Triggers

Smoking kills!! Every single guy knows the truth, still, no one wanna quit smoking. It is the common activity for them or may be a part of the fun. Smoking is taking the life of human slowly and gradually. Serious health problems, weak digestive system lung cancers are the results of continuous smoking. Know the reasons for adopting Smoking as a regular habit:-

1.   An addiction: Cigarette contains nicotine which is the most addictive the heroin and cocaine. It controls the brain, nerves while passing through the bloodstream. Consuming it once will raise the desire to consume more. People feel the more urge to consume nicotine.

2.   Psychological factor: “too much workload”, “not having time to sleep” People take the smoking as the stress relieving factor, or to calm down their mental urges. Whenever they find themselves into any problems, they seek the help of cigarettes to tackle down the situation (although it will not work). A cigarette can never relieve the stress or depression, it is just a fake assumption.

3.   Surroundings: you may work guy or a homely guy. If your family members smoke, you may also get the habit from them, you may also inspire your friends, colleagues, and roommates. The working atmosphere and social gathering may influence to consume cigarette on regular basis or occasionally.  People take smoking as social resemblance or a part of social get-together. If you are engaged in long discussion, smoking is taken as the common activity.

4.   Copying other or Role model: If Akshay Kumar is my favorite hero, I would copy his style and will follow him. Likewise, almost people have their own role models to whom they try to copy. It can be the powerful factor of smoking. Sometimes, we got inspired by the lifestyle of someone (who used to smoke daily), also raise an urge to smoke.

5.  Pressure or Force: Some are forced to smoke. Live examples can be found in working life. Jobless people have to start smoking if their employers put such conditions. Many people start smoking in the pressure of fear, lack of finance, or sudden circumstances.

6.   Smoking is taken as a measure of Weight Control: Youngsters or adults are more into smoking as they feel it as the effective measure of reducing or controlling weight (although it is a rumor). In fact, Smoking reduces the hunger sense which ultimately leads to less consumption of the meal and less appetite.

7.   A part of Fun and Adventure: Children or youngster take it as a challenge. They smoke as a part of fun, adventure, experiment, and entertainment. They are not aware of the consequences and no one is there to stop them as they smoke without telling or showing others. They just want to kill boredom.

8.   Relaxing factor: While smoking you exhales and inhales a part of air with long breath which delivers you a sense of deep relaxation. If they are annoyed with the employers, suffering from the family or financial problems, prisoner of physical abuse, they feel a sense of pleasure while smoking.

9.   To look Impressive: It is their assumptions that smoking personality is bindass, impressive, mature and stunning.  To be the cool guy is not possible through cigarette; it is our mind only which influences us to smoke more.

In short, Smoking triggers can be classified into 4 parts:-

  • Emotional triggers include stress, anxious, excitement, loneliness, feeling of losing the dear one, dissatisfaction, fighting, boredom, lack of happiness, etc.
  • Life-Style Triggers includes smoking while talking on the phone, after having sex, drinking alcohol, watching TV, driving, after the meal, reading a newspaper, in the toilet or taking the work break.
  • Social Triggers includes workplace, smoker friend circle, going to bar/party or social event, getting inspired by role model, copying some other personality, celebrating etc. People feel it a matter of pride with the social gathering
  • Influencer Trigger works when you are the smoker for a long time. It will raise an urge to carry the lighter, craving the taste of the cigarette, smell of smoking and so on.

Whatever the reason is, meditation, exercise, proper diet, professional help altogether can kick these triggers slowly. Research shows most people start smoking in their teens only and get addicted by the time. Some people smoke occasionally and later on get addicted. Finally, people smoke when they love to smoke and it gives them immense pleasure. No side-effects can’t stop them to smoke but it is always advisable to know the most common triggers or your life and hit them with the great power or smoke quitting techniques.

Wanna Quit Smoking- Follow 9 Easy Steps

Smoking- not only harmful for the addicted person but spoiling the surrounding as well. It is tough to quit but not impossible. Strong willpower and right guidance are the two powerful sources to offer a stoppage to smoking. Here we are breaking down the most effective ways of quitting to smoke. Let’s read and comment back to us which ideas are working for your aim.

  1. Positive Approach: Think positive or carry a to do approach. You might have tried hard to quit smoking earlier but the idea did not work. It’s ok, try again with more willpower. Go back to the bitter memories of the past which might be responsible for smoking and correct them with the happening and happy moments you are living with your family and loving people. Even think about other bad habits which you have left with the same positive attitude. Even if you have quitted smoking for 24 hours, consider it as a big achievement.
  2. Draw a Plan: Nothing works without planning. A well-planned chart will motivate you to stay focused. You may design a plan by your own or can seek a help of professional as well. Just set a date and time to stop the smoking, stick to it every time. Whenever your mind forces you to take a drag, simply say ‘no’. Yes, it will work. While planning, keep in the mind the actions to be taken and the escape routes as well.
  3. Decide Your Diet: People love to smoke after having meals as it tastes better. A study reveals that non-veg foods like meat, steak make cigarettes more satisfying, on the other hand, Cheese, fruits, and vegetables make the smoking experience terrible so adopt a good diet which leads to good health instead, a bad habit. Do not ever skip meals, instead, have timely meals.
  4. Improve Drinking Habits: Fizzy drinks, alcohol, coffee, cola, tea may inspire you to consume more cigarettes, comparatively; healthy drink like water, juice will simply change your smoking habits. So know your drinking habits and change accordingly. Avoid caffeine and drink more water.
  5. Change Work or staying place: Smoking sometimes depends on the living place so change that atmosphere which is stopping you from quitting smoking. The atmosphere includes living place, working place, friends and surrounded people. If it is not possible to leave, start avoiding.  Go to the place, where no one smokes.
  6. Sketch the Triggers and start avoiding: Identify the reasons which were responsible for putting you in smoking. These are called triggers which can be emotional, social, cultural and environmental. Just find out the actual reasons and work out to resolve. If the reason is psychological, reduce the stress level. If talking over the phone for long keep you encourage smoking, keeping the pen or some other thing to keep your hand and mouth busy.
  7. Take Help: Quitting smoking may not be so easy and so not easy to do it alone. Invite friends who are also caught with such bad habits and perform collective activities. This follows the statement” together we work, together we grow”. Ask your family to support. Seek professional advice with proper diet plan and quitting activities.
  8. Keep Yourself Busy: A free mind can be disastrous so better to do something all the time. After all, you are not free at all. To avoid smoking habits, you may go for a long walk, chew gum or eat candy, keep your hands busy with working or gaming, go to a movie, spend time with friends, or do something which does not make you remember about the smoking.
  9. Nicotine Replacement: Use some kind of nicotine therapy which may prove as a perfect example and measurement. You may apply nicotine patch, nicotine lozenges and another thing which may take place of cigarette.

Nothing is possible is a day, continuous practice makes a man perfect. So quit smoking for a minute, then for an hour, for a day, a week, a month and then the habit will remove by its own. “Slow and steady wins the race”- so set a time and date and work gradually. Do not over think about smoking or quitting, just run far from the cigarettes, throw the lighters, and hide the ashtrays and adopt a healthy living style. Quitting smoking may create some discomfort or consequences in your life, be strong to overcome these difficulties. Always remember that a cigarette has nothing to do well with your body. It’s only your mind which will decide the right path. In fact, quitting smoking will regain energy, self-confidence, self-esteem, good health, wealthy life and healthy brain.

Lit up your final cigarette today only and solemn not to have again in future. Life is more beautiful without smoking. Do not ever consume cigarette just to be sociable, instead, make a unique personality in a crowd. Life will become smoother once you follow the above-mentioned rules with high enthusiasm and will power. Cheers!!

3 Amazing Overwater Villas found in Malaysia

lavish resort in malasia

Who doesn’t love being surrounded by waters and sleep with the calming sound of the waves interrupting dreams? YES we all just love it! Why not stay in an overwater villa? There’s plenty of choices to suit every budget across Malaysia, from the posh with private pools to the highly functional, geared ones.

No matter what you plan to do – whether it’s romancing your other half, quick getaway with kids; a spa weekend or to party with your pals – there’s certainly a holiday water villa that will serve you the best. Just plan your next trip to your favourite destination, travel by taking express bus tickets from www.redbus.my and definitely check into an amazing overwater villa. Make special memories!

Let’s check the alluring villas built over crystal waters, inviting romance and tranquillity!

  1. Avani Hotels, Sepang- listed as a budget destination for people looking to live in water villas. However, there is definitely no compromise on the quality of the views this place showcases. One can enjoy the mesmerizing sea views from their private balcony of the water villa. Your desires to get away from the water villa for a while is also fulfilled by the resort, they conduct land trips as well. 

Best Hotel in Malasia

  1. Water Bungalows, Mabul Island- Situated over the crystal clear waters off Mabul Island, the Mabul Water Bungalows has been named one of the best dive bases in the world. The Mabul water villas have exquisite modern interiors, entranced by the panoramic view of the turquoise ocean from your private balcony.water Bungalow in Malasia
  2. Pangkor Laut Resort- This resort is built upon the private island of Pangkor Laut which is situated off the coast of the Perak state, between Kuala Lumpur and Penang. The main Pangkor Island offers a more affordable getaway with beautiful beaches like Coral Bay and Teluk Nipah.lavish resort in malasia

visit Malaysia during mid-autumn? It’s all about  Mooncakes!

Malaysia culture is recognized to be a great blend of both old and recent. As such vacations here are always quite popular among tourists, since its calendar remains exciting across the year. Many colourful festivals and events in Malaysia are the major cause for its flourishing tourism. You shall plan a trip to any city of Malaysia, but George Town in Penang blooms during mid-autumn festival, celebrating Chinese occasion.

adventure land in malasia

The Lantern or Mooncake Festival, is a prominent celebration witnessed in East Asia every year. Traditionally, it was a harvest festival, nowadays, Penang mutates itself into a magical place of colours and lights. Look forward for some amazing Lion and dragons dancing on the streets and people pray, eat and celebrate with lots of moonshine and mooncakes. (Mooncakes are traditional Chinese sweets that are round in shape and resemble the full harvest moon of a mid-autumn’s evening. You can enjoy this as a dessert or snack, these mooncakes are made of pastry skin with dense flavoured fillings. A family usually eats mooncakes cut into small wedges along with Chinese tea!)

Plan your next trip to George Town from Kuala Lumpur by simply booking express bus tickets online from redbus Malaysia and reach Penang right away. Where you shall sight the lantern parades, like the enchanting “River of Lights” in George Town. You may explore the Wushu competitions and have fun at the Pesta Tanglung Carnival. Every corner in city will be a glowing with celebrations!

entertainment place malasia

What’s more? If you are in Malaysia for the mid-autumn festival, you shall experience great deals on almost every stuff across the country. Right from groceries, fresh seafood and garments to electronics, purchase your desired goods at unimaginable prices. Top grade groceries shall be delivered at your doorstep from your preferred supermarket. Happy Celebrations and shopping together!

Lyrics Ae Dil Hai Mushkil

Song: Ae Dil Hai Mushkil Title Song
Singer: Arijit Singh
Lyrics: Amitabh Bhattacharya
Music: Pritam

 

(Ae Dil hai Mushkil Lyrics In English)

Tu Safar Mera, Hai Tu Hi Meri Manzil

Tere Bina Guzaara, Ae Dil Hai Mushkil

Tu Mera Khuda, Tu Hi Dua Mein Shamil

Tere Bina Guzaara, Ae Dil Hai Mushkil

Mujhe Aazmati  Hai Teri Kami,  Meri Har Kami Ko Hai Tu Laazmi

Junoon Hai Mera,  Banu Main Tere Kabil

Tere Bina Guzaara,  Ae Dil Hai Mushkil

 

Yeh Rooh Bhi Meri, Yeh Jism Bhi Mera

Utna Mera Nahi , Jitna Hua Tera

Tune Diya Hai Jo, Woh Dard Hi Sahi

Tujhse Mila Hai To, Inaaam Hai Mera

Mera Aasmaan Dhoondhe Teri Zameen,  Meri Har Kami Ko Hai Tu Laazmi

Zameen Pe Na Sahi, To Aasmaan me Aa Mil

Tere Bina Guzaara, Ae Dil Hai Mushkil

 

Mana Ki Teri, Mauzudgi Se, Yeh Zindagani, Mahroom Hai

Jeene Ka  Koi,  Duja Tareeka,  Na Mere Dil Ko,  Malum Hai

Tujko Main,  Kitni Shiddat Se Chahun,  Chahe To Rehna,  Tu Bekhabar

Mohtaz Manzil Ka To Nahi Hai, Yeh Ek Tarfa Mera Safar

Safar Khoobsurat Hai, Manzil Se Bhi

Meri Har Kami Ko Hai Tu Laazmi

Adhura Hoke Bhi, Hai Ishq Mera Kamil

Tere Bina Guzara , Ae Dil Hai Mushkil

 

(Ae Dil hai Mushkil Lyrics In Hindi)

तू सफर मेरा, है तू ही मेरी मंजिल,

तेरे बिना गुजारा, ऐ दिल है मुश्किल,

तू मेरा खुदा, तू ही दुआ में शामिल

तेरे बिना गुजारा, ऐ दिल है मुश्किल

मुझे आज़माती है तेरी कमी, मेरी हर कमी को है तू लाज़मी

जूनून है मेरा, बनू मैं तेरे काबिल

तेरे बिना गुजारा, ऐ दिल है मुश्किल

 

ये रूह भी मेरी, ये जिस्म भी मेरा

उतना मेरा नहीं, जितना हुआ तेरा

तूने दिया है जो, वो जखम ही सही,

तुझसे मिला है तो, इनाम है मेरा

मेरा आसमान ढूंढें तेरी ज़मीन, मेरी हर कमी को है तू लाज़मी

ज़मीन पे न सही, तो, आसमान में आ मिल

तेरे बिना गुजारा, ऐ दिल है मुश्किल

 

माना की तेरी मौजूदगी से, ये ज़िंदगानी, महरूम है

जीने का कोई दूजा तरीका, न मेरे दिल को मालूम है

तुझको मैं कितनी शिद्दत से चाहूं, चाहे तो रहना तू बेखबर,

मोहताज़ मंजिल का तो नहीं है, ये एक तरफ़ा मेरा सफर

सफर खूबसिरत है, मंजिल से भी,

मेरी हर कमी को है तू लाजमी

अधूरा होके भी, है इश्क़ मेरा कामिल,

तेरे बिना गुजारा, ऐ दिल है मुश्किल

Biography of the Former CM J.Jayalaitha Called As Amma

Biography of the Former CM J.Jayalaitha

Biography of the Former CM J.Jayalaitha Called As Amma. There are only few women in this male domination world get success in her career. from the beginning of the earth emerges women are always dominated by the men because a woman is very weak in psychical strength as well as mental strength. Hence, women stay in the kitchen for many years without knowing anything happen around her. Very few women overcome these kinds of rules and regulations and break the boundaries build in front the women. In this article, we will see the biography of the women who broke the boundaries build by this male domination society and rules the Tamilnadu as lion rules the forest named as MS J. Jayalitha but people of the Tamilnadu called her Amma from the bottom of their hearts.

There are only a few women in this male domination world get success in her career. From the beginning of the earth emerges women are always dominated by the men because a woman is very weak in psychical strength as well as mental strength. Hence, women stay in the kitchen for many years without knowing anything happen around her. Very few women overcome these kinds of rules and regulations and break the boundaries build in front the women. In this article, we will see the biography of the women who broke the boundaries build by this male domination society and ruled the Tamil Nadu as a lion ruled the forest named as MS.J. Jaya litha but people of the Tamil Nadu called her Amma from the bottom of their hearts.

The Early life of the Amma:

Jayalalitha was born on 24 February 1948 in Mysore to the couple Jayaram and Vedavalliin a Tamil Brahmin family. She was given her grandmother’s name komalavalli at the time of birth. The name Jayalalitha was adopted at the age of one for the purpose of use in the schools and colleges. She had an elder brother named as Jayakumar. She called as Ammu by her parents,relatives, and friends. Her father was a lawyer but died when she was two years old. In order to run the family, her mother worked as a clerk and later started acting in the film with the screen name of Sandhya. She studied her primary education in the Bishop Cotton girl’s school in Bangalore. Later, she moved to madras for live with her mother and completed her education at sacred heart matriculation school popularly known as church park convent. She excelled at education and got many scholarships from the government further pursue her education.Moreover, she got the first rank in her tenth standard board exam in the state of Tamil Nadu.She was fluent in several languages that include Tamil, Kannada, Telugu, Hindi, Malayalam, and English. She got an offer to study at the Stella Maris College.

Film career of the Jayalalitha:

After Jayalalitha moved to Chennai, she was trained in Carnatic music and western classical piano. Moreover, she also trained in various forms of the dance such as bharatanatyam, mohiniyattam, and Manipuri kathak. She became an excellent dancer in all forms dance and made her first debut dance performance at the Rasika Ranjani Sabha at May 1960 in Mylapore. Shivaji Ganesan was the chief guest for that arangetram. He is the first one expresses that Jayalalitha becomes a famous film star in the future. Afterward, the schoolchild Jayalalitha began acting in some plays of the Parthasarathy along with her mother and aunt. Jayalalitha acted a small role in the English play Tea Houses of August Moon. The Indian former president V.V. Giri son impressed with her acting and asked her mother that he wanted to cast her daughter in an English film called The Epistie. The Kannada filmmaker B.R. Panthulu saw Jayalalitha with her mother film party and decided to cast her in the Kannada movie opposite to the Kalayankumar. After acted in the Kannada movie, Jayalalitha forgets about all her films. She started to attend the classes in the Stella Maris College as she has the ambition to become a lawyer.  However, the Kannada debut film became a blockbuster hit and Jayalalitha became a known face.

Meanwhile, she acted in the Parthasarathy plays such as Malathi, the whole truth, and the dance drama Kaveri Thanda Kalaiselvi. She began her film career as the leading an actress in the Kannada industry at the age of fifteen. In April 1960, she made her debut in the Tamil theatre played as a sales girl in the undersecretary drama. The play was based on the lives of the middle aged couple where Parthasarthy and Sandhya were the lead characters, while Jayalalitha and Cho Ramaswamy were paired together. Because of his excellent performance, parathasarathy made her act as an actress in his plays. In 1964, her film Chinnada Gombe and Manushulu Mamathalu became blockbusters that made her become popular among film producers and directors. C. V. Sridhar approached Jayalalitha for her Tamil debut film. In the few years, she became one of the busiest actresses. In that time, her mother advised her to make use of the increasing film offers. The film Vennira Aadai is the first Tamil debut film for the Jayalalitha.

Queen of the film industry:

Jayalalitha made her Telugu debut film in Manushulu Mamathalu opposite Akkineni Nageshwara Rao as a lead an actress. Moreover, she was the first heroine in the Tamil cinema industry appeared in the skirt. Even, she also acted in one Hindi film called as Lzzat. In addition, she starred in twenty-eight box office hit films with M.G. Ramachandran. For the first time her name was affixed with the phrase kavarchi kanni in the opening credit of the movie Arasa Katalai. She paired almost with all the top heroes in all the film industry likes Jaishankar, M.G.R, and Shivaji Ganesan, N.T Rama Rao etc. she got the national film award for best feature film in Tamil for the film pattikada pattanama and acted against the legend Shivaji Ganesan. Moreover, she also won many film fare awards, state awards and national awards. She wrote her own life experience in a serialized memoir in the kumudam (Tamil weekly magazine). In 1980, she decided to quit off from the film industry and refused the offer act as heroine in the film Billa against Rajinikanth.

Political career of the Jayalalitha:

After quitting her career from the film industry, she came into the political industry because of the M.G. Ramachandran. M.G.R forced Jayalalitha come to the politics but not a violent way. Hence, the chief minister of the Tamil Nadu M.G Ramachandran introduces Jayalalitha to politics in 1977. She joined the AIADMK party in 1982 that founded by the M.G. Ramachandran. She delivered her public speech pennin perumai in the AIDMK political conference. By the next year, she became the propaganda secretary of the party. In addition, she selected as the candidate for the Tiruchendur by-election. M.G Ramachandran wanted Jayalalitha to be a member of the Rajya Sabah because of her fluency in the English language. She became more popular among the highest-ranking members of the party soon and got success in all her role.

Because of some drift between the MGR and Jayalalitha, the party members influenced MGR to force her to stop writing about her in the Tamil weekly magazine. The chief minister of the state MGR died due to a stroke in 1984. Party members said that Jayalitha attempted to get the place of the chief minister and the party after the death of MGR. Then the party split into two halves one followed by the MGR wife Janaki and another one by Jayalalitha. Hence, Janaki selected as the chief minister of Tamil Nadu with the support of ninety-six members in 1988. However, Rajiv Gandhi used the article three hundred and fifty-six of the Indian assembly in order to dismiss the Janaki-led government and brought the president rule in the state.

The opposition of the Jayalalitha after 1989:

In 1989, she elected as the candidate for the election in the Bodinayakkanur based on the MGR’s political heir. In this election, everyone saw the real face of the Jayalalitha and she won the twenty-seven seats in the election. Moreover, she became the first woman to be elected as the leader of the opposition. The two division of the party merged and accepted the Jayalalitha as the leader in February 1989. Moreover, they restore the two leaves symbol for the party. She faced many problems and shameful moments in her political life. There are two incidents that represent these two things. They are.

  1. In the funereal march of the MGR, Jayalalitha pulled off from the army vehicle three times by the MGR relatives. That women stand behind the head of the MGR for three days in the Rajaji Hall. However, she had no rights for entering into the army vehicle.
  2. The next incident happened in the assembly on 25 March 1989. There was violence among the opposite party DMK and the ADMK party in front of the assembly speaker and the chief minister Karunanidhi. Jayalalitha brutally attacked by the opposite party and left the assembly with her torn saree drawing parallel in the floor like Draupadi in the epic Mahabharata.

After that incident, she left the home and promised herself not to enter the home until she became the chief minister. Because of this incident, she got more media support and gained sympathy from the public. This made her win the election conducted in 1989 allied with the congress party.

First female and youngest chief minister:

The assassination of the Rajiv Gandhi before the elections made her alliance with the Indian national congress party that enabled her to ride the wave of the sympathy in order to get the victory. In 1991 election, the ADMK party under the Jayalalitha leadership alliance with the congress won two hundred and twenty-five seats among the two hundred and thirty-four seats. Moreover, they won thirty-nine seats in the center of the state. Then, Jayalalitha became the first female and youngest chief minister of the Tamil Nadu. However, she lost her power in the 1996 election just won four seats among the one hundred and sixty-four. The wedding event of her foster son Sudhakaran married a granddaughter of the Tamil film actor Shivaji Ganesan in 1995 at Chennai The event holds two Guinness World Records i.e. one is for the most guests at a wedding and the other is for being the largest wedding banquet. This made her enter into the big problem. Afterward, she elected as the chief minister in the elections held in 2001, 2011, 2014, and 2016.

 Went jail for the assets case in 2014:

The chief minister Jayalalitha sentenced to the jail for four years and fined hundred corers because of the assets case filed on her. She was prisoner and automatically disqualified from the CM post and Panner Selvam elected as the CM. she was the first Indian chief minister to be disqualified. In October 2014, the Supreme Court granted her two months’ bail and suspended her sentence. In 2015, she released from the jail and become the CM for the fifth time. She became the first leader in Tamil Nadu to serve consecutive terms as Chief Minister since the death of MGR in 1987.

Best schemes by Amma:

She introduced many schemes like cradle baby scheme for the women and girl child in order to increase the girl’s child rate. Moreover, her government was the first to introduce police stations operated solely by women. She introduced thirty percentages quota for women in all police jobs. She introduced the many wonderful schemes like rainwater harvesting, pregnancy gift set and money, family first-degree holder scholarships, thali sovereign for poor women, amma medical shop, amma water, amma hotel, amma cement, and even more. She also extended the maternity period for the women. She also did many things for the farmers and the problem of Kaveri dam. She is the only women make the state Tamil Nadu to stand in this position.

The death of the Jayalalitha:

No one in the India, especially Tamil Nadu people expect that amma died at the age of 68. On 22 September 2016, Jayalalitha admitted in the Apollo hospital, Chennai as she suffered from dehydration. Hence, her official duties submitted to the Panner Selvam. She is in the hospital for more than seventy-three days. As Apollo doctor said that, she had many problems and we went on the medical treatment for her without releasing the photo and audio speech of her. Doctors from the London were also come and gave treatment for her. However, Apollo officially announced she died due to stroke on 5 December 2016. Her body was kept at her residence in Poes Garden and Rajaji Hall. Jayalalitha last rites performed on the evening of 6 December. She interred in the northern end of the Marina Beach in sandalwood casket, near the grave of her mentor M.G. Ramachandran.